whose kid is it anyways?

From the minute any kid is born, the rush to have him “belong” to one side of the family starts. Onse side will always insist that he/she is JUST like them even if its in a quality as generic as the baby liking to sleep late (as if its like a genetic achievement that the “other” side [...]

familiar routes and routines.

I remember last year today, following the BB assasination, our car got stoned on the way back from my mothers house to ours, literally a 5 minute distance. Suddenly my entire world seemed so vulnerable and I was petrified of stepping out. Everything was unfamiliar, strange, alien. After that incident even the well beaten path to [...]

the time is going

I am mostly floundering out of control these days as I struggle to catch up on my writing and blogging. So much is happening everyday in my Nadi life. He is growing so fast, learning things, being funny and I want to capture little things so I dont forget about them later but i get [...]