There is a lot of wisdom floating around out there on having kids, raising kids ad the such. You are bombarded from the minute you conceive on what all you need to do.have.think/feel. What I want to know is how come no one ever mentioned how bloody DARN useful having a kid can be? Ever since the solo walk Nadi has been a man on a mission. No errand is too much for him as he deposits his own pampers in the dustbin, puts laundry away, rolls up carpets and sweeps under them, carries water bottles to their right destinations, puts shoes and socks in their proper places and just generally is the Minister of Right Placement of Things in the World.